in this Valentine’s you need to know these keys for your better relationship
love means your personal life which is the only thing you want to live most.
I hope my blogs find you worthy
What is love?
Umm this is a controversial question I guess
Love is something we don’t want to define in one word or something not we can explain in words to someone
Basically Love is a feeling like sadness or happiness
like we cannot define happiness in words we can only feel it that’s how love works it’s a human emotion which can’t be describe in words,
We can only define it as “love is most beautiful feeling in the world!
which cannot measured on right or wrong terms” at that time it just love which we can feel and that’s all matter that’s feeling.
How To spend your time with your love?
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- Love is something we cannot find anywhere it stays within us just to need to click it,
Umm it’s not about any Bollywood movie like butterflies feelings and all
Butterflies is only about hormones when we attracted towards someone, and yes that’s attraction called sometimes love which is not true because love is a long lasting feeling but attraction is not for eg. If we attracted towards a Car at present may be we will not like that one in future because of any new model arrive in market so basically attraction a surface level feeling which can be changed but sometimes we consider attraction is not a good thing but it is wrong attraction is something which also necessary in a relationship without it we cannot attend that person,
And attraction is based on human’s personal choices preference for eg if you find attractive something but on other hand your friend doesn’t attract to that thing so this basically depends on individual choice,
Vibe is something important in any relationship but what is vibe?
Vibe
Vibe comes from vibrations.
We all have senses of being comfortable with anyone so we can say that’s comfortable level is called vibe it can be defined as our energy how we feel with that specific person we meet.
Vibe can be positive or negative energy. Which helps you to adjust yourself with people you meet on daily basis.
Vibe helps us to distinguish our behavior according to people we meet
Sometimes we get a superb twinning with someone because our vibes match with that person amazingly.
Vibe helps you to enjoy your time and moment that person it can be your love or your friends.
some key points for a better bond in any relation
Conversation
Conversation is key of every relationship in today era we are ran from a deep conversation, A deep and clear conversation is very important in any relationship which improves the understanding between you and your love,Conversation reducing the chances of fighting
Handle with care
Sometimes because of anger we cannot understand them
In heat moment one thing a partner can do is be calm and patient once partner getting cool then you can make your move and talk with them on that peacfully
Because anger can mislead the conversation on other track.
Don’t Ignore
Do not ignore your love
Ignorance is something some people can’t afford,
We have to pay attention to them
. Tell them who he or she for your feel them special its a reminder to call them your love
Then automatically it will turn the ignorance in attention
On a date these factors are important don’t use other gadgets like mobile phone
Don’t ignore them as she or he no one in front of you,
Do conversation related daily and clear the misunderstanding
Live in the moment
Pay your attention through your body language to that person who is sitting next to youIt can be beneficial for both as you will also get attension and feel better after getting this back from your partner
This is basically human psychology that depends on your behaviour how second person behave with you as no one is perfect.
After making conversation and all now you can enjoy your meals to have a restaurant in your list to go out
feed your love
Now food is basic need of a human
Which can helps you to understand and show your love to your partner.
Mark a beautiful restaurant in your list to go
Secondly you can plan a visit to a place which can entertain you both the place like restaurants, Theaters.
The most effective thing you can do it go on a trip
As in DDLJ our Raj and Simran falls in love because of that trip where they spend time together fully for some days
Ego
How Ego can ruin your relationship?
People think their self esteem is higher then anything and they cannot adjust here again we define things in wrong way to call it adjustment, to live on this earth each and every element of mother nature is adjust itself to grow, the best example for this is a plant which grow withing a wall of bricks now that plant search it’s way to grow to sunlight,
but this terms of adjustment changes when it only one sided so this is unfair in any relationship, we need to understand this is our no your and mine, the fight the daily chaos is us not individual as partners we need to clarify things first then take any action against them not against our partner.
Trust
Trust your partner blindly can be fatal but trust is necessary in a relation like we are trusting our parents, trust can be helpful rather then doubts, doubts can irritate your partners or if you feel it then make a conversation but save yourself from manipulation,
trust is key in any relation which is a work like a cement in a building
Give a beathing space “Love is free from any boundation”
Yes giving space to your partner is important as spend time with them, this is a mature relation sign,
you must learn to spend hours without them because it is really important for your indiviudallity
it give other one a space to live their own life also, here own life means every and each person have thier own very personal circle to live
not with any human or kind of friend but it is about their own world where they live in their thoughts so
give them a space to thought and hang freely like a bird,
A good relationship is like a fine wine with time
if you ever meet a old couple, they know their partner feelings without one word they know them with only their actions , yes actions always important then talks in a good relation when it come to show your love,
have faith in your partner
Than you for reading
Your Valentine is waiting for you,
Such a genuine and heartfelt advice You reminded us that respect trust faith and most important love is such a amazing thing with some who truly love you and trust came alive through your words .
good advice ❤️